By Sister J. Annette Dennis
First Counselor in the Relief Society General Presidency
- Cassie the dog
- Story
- “Jack was anxious to show off Cassie’s amazing skills. However, Cassie was acting strangely. She wouldn’t obey any of Jack’s commands as she usually did so willingly. All she wanted to do was remain by his side.”
- “After arriving home, Jack began examining Cassie for injuries, burrs, or ticks, as he usually did. As he put his hand on her chest, he felt something wet and found his hand covered with blood. To his shame and horror, he found that Cassie had a long, wide gash right to her chest bone. He found another on her right front leg, also to the bone.”
- “Jack took Cassie into his arms and began to cry. His shame at how he had misjudged and treated her was overwhelming.”
- Lesson
- “Cassie had been acting uncharacteristically earlier in the day because she was hurt.
- “Her behavior had been influenced by her pain, her suffering, and her wounds.
- “It had nothing to do with a lack of desire to obey Jack or a lack of love for him.”
- Practical Application
- How many wounded individuals do we have among us?
- How often do we judge others based on their outward appearance and actions, or lack of action, when, if we fully understood, we would instead react with compassion and a desire to help instead of adding to their burdens with our judgment?
- Motivation Heirarchy
- Duty
- For Reward
- Love for God
- Love for the person
- Do what the Lord asks of us “not out of duty or even for the blessings we might receive but purely out of love for Him and our Heavenly Father…”
- Love for God is a more holy motivation than duty and promised blessings.
- President Nelson taught: “If friends and family … step away from the Church, continue to love them. It is not for you to judge another’s choice any more than you deserve to be criticized for staying faithful.”